Comments for Nancy Peacock Books http://nancypeacockbooks.com Mon, 15 Dec 2014 18:41:25 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.5.4 Comment on River of words by Lisa http://nancypeacockbooks.com/river-of-words/#comment-93 Mon, 15 Dec 2014 18:41:25 +0000 http://nancypeacockbooks.com/wp/?p=652#comment-93 This was beautiful, Karen! I have no answers either, and many of the same questions. Sometimes I think the questions arise also because of age–in middle age, I’m less optimistic about real change in the world, because I’ve seen how some things don’t get better, and how the changes we hope to make–through protests, through speaking out–don’t seem to stop the horror. And yet, in some ways they do–I have also seen profound change in my lifetime. It’s just not enough, sometimes, to keep me feeling optimistic. And yes, when scrolling through the news is always bad, it’s hard to even keep my equilibrium, to not fall into despair. And then these questions come up: what value is there in words, in the little lives we carve out for ourselves, trying to do some good in the world, but feeling, always, it is not enough in the tide of awful events. And while sometimes I feel this connectedness we have from the internet and social media is a gift–I’ve seen it work to help people and animals–I also feel it can be a curse; I felt more balanced sometimes, when I didn’t actually know the awful thoughts and opinions some seemingly “nice” people have, when I didn’t see racism or sexism (or any -ism) exposed in their reaction the horrible events of our day. And that feels selfish too–worrying about my own reaction and feelings.

In the end, though, I think it’s not selfish, because I think we have to find a way to keep ourselves strong, protected, and on balance. Maybe we need retreats from the world–I know I certainly do. so I understand the appeal of a contemplative life, especially if it is paired with a return to work–the work of writing and teaching and sometimes simply being–simply being in the world doing small good: being a kind person, caring about others. I’ve been surprised, lately, to hear that very small things I did were very helpful to people–sometimes just a few words of encouragement. I think we can’t forget how small gestures, too, have great value sometimes.

And this blog, for example. How often I’ve read it–much more than I’ve commented!–and been moved and grateful for your words, Karen and Nancy. They are important, and whatever keeps you strong enough to keep working is valuable! Thank ou again!

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Comment on Caring-for by Ruth Knox http://nancypeacockbooks.com/caring-for/#comment-91 Mon, 17 Nov 2014 17:08:53 +0000 http://nancypeacockbooks.com/wp/?p=639#comment-91 I am not new to caregiving in all its luminous and exhausting moments. Grace does not come naturally, I believe. It grows in us through our awkward stumblings and our rebellious fire. And we never quite reach it, that state of grace. We come close at times, and at others, we are hideously lacking. Such is caregiving. Seeming impossible in the moment, and even in retrospect, long after the death of our loved one. Because it is. Because no one wants to look that long in the mirror to see every flaw and blemish on our soul, and yet caregiving demands it. We will always fall short of our ideal. But the thing is? We showed up. We knew it would be messy and demanding, but we still showed up. And we’re human. And that’s as graceful as it gets.

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Comment on Heart and Mind by Karen http://nancypeacockbooks.com/heart-and-mind/#comment-90 Mon, 08 Sep 2014 02:05:06 +0000 http://nancypeacockbooks.com/wp/?p=574#comment-90 Thank you so much!

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Comment on Heart and Mind by Marilyn Bousquin http://nancypeacockbooks.com/heart-and-mind/#comment-89 Mon, 08 Sep 2014 01:04:10 +0000 http://nancypeacockbooks.com/wp/?p=574#comment-89 Exquisite.

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Comment on Passion by admin http://nancypeacockbooks.com/passion/#comment-88 Mon, 25 Aug 2014 19:32:02 +0000 http://nancypeacockbooks.com/wp/?p=558#comment-88 Lisa – That’s a good point. More and more I see writers divided as either being in academia or not in academia. To those of us outside academia it can seem like a club. I have no idea what it feels like to be inside. But it seems to me we shouldn’t have these dividing lines. Maybe that is naive. When I first got published I went on a book tour that included a lot of university gigs and cocktail parties, and I was as surprised to find out that I was an outsider as many of the folks there were to find me (a house cleaner who never attended college) amongst them.
I feel very mixed about it all, because I know universities provide a lot of opportunities and support for writers, but then I read an article like the one I refer to, and I get my dander up at the suggestion of exclusivity. And the suggestion that passion is somehow less than intellectualism. I am not anti-intellectual, but I don’t see it as a place to put up a foundation and build a fortress.

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Comment on Passion by Lisa Chavez http://nancypeacockbooks.com/passion/#comment-87 Mon, 25 Aug 2014 18:53:59 +0000 http://nancypeacockbooks.com/wp/?p=558#comment-87 Bravo!

And while this is a digression from your main point, to me this also sums up the difficulty, sometimes, for the writer in academia. There is the perception that the way we talk about writing, the way we work, is somehow not intellectual enough, not rigorous enough. But creative works begin in passion, I believe, or they should, and that must be acknowledged too, and first, we must get people to engage with the work, to love it, to enjoy it. Perhaps from there we will go to analysis. But the first, most important thing, is engagement and joy. (And “dangerous” not to analyze? Some people’s definition of danger is quite different than mine.)

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Comment on Darkness and Light by Karen http://nancypeacockbooks.com/darkness-and-light/#comment-83 Sat, 16 Aug 2014 13:00:54 +0000 http://nancypeacockbooks.com/wp/?p=534#comment-83 Dear Lisa: Yes, I thought about your words about writing darkness. Think about that all the time, actually. Someone once called me Shiva, goddess of destruction, even, and I have come to see (especially this year somehow) that what I write is finely distilled pain–a product of generations. My mother. Her sisters. An inheritance of sadness, both in my blood and in my psyche. I’m pushing ahead now to some new kind of writing….light? I am hoping that, as you say here, beauty can sustain us. Can counter this world and teach me to love more.

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Comment on Darkness and Light by Lisa Chavez http://nancypeacockbooks.com/darkness-and-light/#comment-82 Fri, 15 Aug 2014 19:44:57 +0000 http://nancypeacockbooks.com/wp/?p=534#comment-82 Thanks for this, and I recognize my words there, about having a hard time reading things that are relentlessly bleak. I think you’ve captured my dilemma as a writer and reader: I do not want to shy away from all that is difficult in the world, because I believe it is so important that we face that, that we speak truth in the face of injustice. But if, in the end, there is no hope, then it is almost impossible to keep going. So I, too, look for those glimmers of illumination (oh, how I loved the way you put it: “tiny jars of gold from my spirit”). Sometimes it is just the strength of the human spirit, choosing to go on, hoping for better.

For me as a writer, sometimes all there is to counter the worst in the world is the spirit of survival, but I also try to add moments of beauty, which is often found, for me, in the natural world. Something to sustain us, whatever that might be.

And I just read The Snow Child, and loved that book too–it captured Alaska so very well, and was so beautiful…

Thank you, again, for the wisdom of your words!

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Comment on Darkness and Light by Karen http://nancypeacockbooks.com/darkness-and-light/#comment-81 Tue, 05 Aug 2014 23:06:10 +0000 http://nancypeacockbooks.com/wp/?p=534#comment-81 I only wish we had more time to work together! We will have to do that as writers and friends!!!

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Comment on Darkness and Light by Elizabeth Gaucher http://nancypeacockbooks.com/darkness-and-light/#comment-80 Tue, 05 Aug 2014 11:47:47 +0000 http://nancypeacockbooks.com/wp/?p=534#comment-80 Karen, I feel as if I am hearing you speak these words out loud. I am so glad to have workshopped with you at WVWC.

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